Audio Blog: Reclaim Your Life
Is ego, fear, or someone else’s vision keeping you stuck?
You are the expert, master, and keeper of your life.
What are your guiding philosophies? Are you functioning from a place of blame, entitlement, lack, fear, and greed? Or from a position of responsibility, abundance, wealth, courage, and charity? And I’m not talking about money – but rather about strength, purpose and meaning.
Maybe your mind is scattered and unfocused, or it seems too late to change course now.
Maybe you forgot to ask questions and push back a little along the way. Perhaps what you want seems unobtainable. Maybe you’ve never been a lucky person, or there’s too much burdening you to see the possibilities.
Our perspective is much like a camera lens.
Sometimes we need to stop to adjust the filter, focus, or breadth of what we see. When the inner critic speaks louder than the voice of reason, self doubt sounds like the gospel truth. When hopelessness reigns as the Queen of your mental castle, it’s time to step back and adjust the lens.
1. Focus. Adjust. Zoom.
Switch the lens.
If what you want is to be happy, focus your energy and attention on the people, places, and experiences that lead you to feeling happy. Doing this for just 30 seconds, five times per day, can change your brain structure and chemistry so that it’s easier to see the bright side of things.
If what you want is to be free, adjust the expectations, to-do’s, and beliefs that imprison you. What can you take off your plate, delegate or reprioritize?
If it’s love you seek, look at the bigger picture. Reach for the wide lens. You could be missing something, or someone, who’s right in front of you.
2. When you hear your inner monologue sweetly sabotaging your dreams, question it and correct it.
Ask, “What evidence do I have to support the idea that I can’t do it?” Then, flip it around and ask, “What evidence do I have that I CAN do it?”. And, “What information do I need to make that dream happen?”.
3. Start with a top ten list.
Name your top ten most enjoyable activities – where you get lost in the flow, 10 people who inspire you – who you’ve learned from or have felt something change in your life because of them, and 10 things you can do so naturally that you can complete them without even thinking about them.
4. Identify your hidden values.
Notice overlapping activities, skills, or interests in your lists. Cherish this crucial information as the foundation for beginning to reclaim your life. Now you are building, growing, grounding, and changing. Set one micro-goal for each day to get closer to your dream.
5. Remind yourself you can do this. Commit to staying THIS course.
When you commit to daily actionable steps toward your dream, you steadily move toward achieving them. Envision your best self. Embrace your unique strengths. Trust you have the drive and wherewithal to see them through. Clarify your intentions daily. Watch your life evolve.
“Your field of focus determines what you find in life.” T. Harv Eker
